Good day and thank you for showing interest to read my blog and my story. I appreciate you spending time to read the lines in my site.
Let me share something about myself…
About Me
Hi, my name is Joel Magsisi and I am a Civil Engineer by profession. I quit my JOB as a Project Manager managing various projects for an Architectural and Design Firm in Pasay City. I have a loving wife and an adorable son for whom I dedicate and get inspiration for all my works.
I also quit being On Line Network Marketer. A lot of you may wonder why a Project Manager quit a high paying JOB and also quit MLM (Multi Level Marketing) Business, well basically I'm a quitter! Here’s pretty much what happened….
Why a Project Manager Entered MLM in the First Place?
Well here it is -
One time when I was killing time before a scheduled meeting, I went to a national bookstore outlet and started to read some books.
I came across a book with a title "Conspiracy of the Rich" by Robert Kiyosaki.
I started scanning the pages of the said book, and before I realize it I was reading it CHAPTER BY CHAPTER.
I got so interested in the context of the book that I almost forgot that I got a meeting.
I ended up my public reading session with almost halfway to the book.
Too many questions retained in my mind that I felt the thirst to finish the book.
I promised to myself that I would have that book and finish reading it, and to make the long story short, I did.
In the said reading, other works of "Robert Kiyosaki" was advertised in the book.
I again got interested because a whole new perspective on the way I look at life opened.
I had to have answers to the questions and I need to quench the thirst for my new found knowledge.
So I found myself collecting "Works" of the said author.
The next book I finished reading was "Rich Dad Poor Dad" and some of my important questions was finally answered.
I found myself digging more into the "Works" of this author and little by little trying to apply the knowledge I gain in my life.
Saying let's put this to the test. So as they say, knowledge without action is dead. (or is it faith? Well quite the same)
I saw changes in my life and more importantly, in myself.
But by nature, I'm kinda impatient and wanted to speed up my way on my goals.
What I did was search for more effective ways and ideas on my purpose (if there are more I thought)
And to my surprise, I found a lot (way more than I expected). You see I'm not used to seeking advice on these so called "Self-Help Books" because of my pride. I always thought that I didn't need any of these as I got to where I am because of my effort and a "little help from my friends".
So there I was, trying to find the "magic pill" that could solve all my queries and get me closer and faster to my goals.
One day when I was OL (surfing the Net) and wasn't really searching for these things, just checking my mail like I always do first when I'm OL, I stumbled upon an update on "Linked In" (it was not from my network, but a random fellow from an extended network).
I got interested in his "headline" and clicked the link.
I found myself watching his video sales letter. For the first 5 minutes of watching, I said to myself, "nah, this is one of those 'NETWORKING' things again"
A scheme that gets you to buy something with a promise of a business opportunity. and when they get you to buy, goodbye hard earned money and goodbye also to the hopes of a good opportunity.
Further to the video, something changed my thinking. It was the product they’re offering.
The things I was searching for, more books and information I mentioned earlier.
I finished the video and got to the decision to buy the product not because of the business opportunity they are offering.
I thought that this is only one of those "so called business opportunities again," but what got me interested is the library of rich information.
And for the low price, I said what a bargain!
I said "even if I the business doesn't work, (which I then had no plans of pursuing) I will get my money's worth" (the product - the library is what I was after)
So there I was; I called the number posted on the ad. And again to make the long short. I got the product.
As I started reading the "materials" inside the library, my "contact" started pitching in more materials to my email. He showed me how they do the “On Line Business” thing. He started orienting me and training me plus he provided the tools they use in their Team.
I was glad; I got what I wanted and more!
Now, I am getting back what I paid for plus I get to keep the "library" with the hopes of making more money with virtually less effort.
Just like what I read in one of Kiyosaki's book "it's my money making more money for me."
First Experiences in My On Line MLM
When I was just starting with my On Line Network Marketing Business, I struggle so hard. I faced so many rejections. It was very frustrating for me especially if the rejections came from the people whom I expected to support me. But still, I continued to invite people in my list of friends (facebook) starting from those who are close to me. I felt bad every time I sent an “invite” letter to my friends, thinking at the back of my mind what these people might think and the thought of another rejection being added to my list. It was so frustrating not having the results I’ve expected especially when my list of “warm” market is getting depleted.
What I did to Turn the Tide
With all the frustrations and nearing the end of my list of warm market, I got to the point where have to decide where I want to go. It’s either I quit this or go on,
So I decided to stop!
Stop feeling frustrated and continue with my Business. I contacted my Upline (Marco Merza) to ask tips on “How they do this business?” That’s the importance of having mentors – mentors who can provide guidance in this business or any kind of business for that matter. Your learning process will speed up if you have Mentors to guide you in the “ins” and “outs” of the business. They can show you the “do’s and “don’ts” because they have been there and done that. This is more efficient than you trying to figure out things on your own.
My mentor’s first advice was stop feeling bad about the business and start believing. He also strongly pushed me to read the books and training manuals that were sent to me. So that’s what I did, I started to massively educate myself again regarding the system of the “business.” He also introduced me to his mentors and they showed me tips on how can I improve my results.
So after the massive education (mind you, I didn’t stop studying, I continue to read (e-books & physical books) and attend seminars some seminars) that’s when the magic happens. The results I wanted started coming in. By mimicking my mentors, honing and developing the skills I learned, I can now generate endless number of qualified prospects and started attracting them to me instead of me chasing and convincing them. That’s what the power of right information and positive mindset can do. And so I thought...
I got hooked in reading and studying more, the results I wanted were coming in as long as I am "doing the business," but there was a time when I got too occupied with my "self studies" and the tasks of my "profession," that I was doing the "business" less & less...
With more effort on my "studies" & my profession, I noticed that I was having less time for "networking." I began to search for more resource materials and groups of people to learn more ( mind you, I hang around with other people such as my colleagues & friends) not just networkers, because I want to hear different points of view and not just stereotype, limited and often "die-hard" views... I want to have a really open mind on things... The e-books started me with that search for the "real" stuffs in life...
With that search, I stumble upon different points of views about money, life and networking... Pros, cons, violent reactions and also some worshiping kinds of views... I tried to improve and develop my networking skills to have my desired results but as time passes and upon reading and hearing so many different views about networking, I found myself slowly getting cold in the network marketing business...
I started weighing all views and points while reading and studying about other aspects of life... Then it came to a point that all reasons I value started to clear the air for me about what's wrong with network marketing... That's when I decided to QUIT NETWORKING!
Prospects still inquire from time time because of the "effective marketing tools" I learned and set up, but I reject them outright and tell them I don't do networking no more...
When they ask me why, I just direct them to my blog... and have them read the reasons.
How The Tide Further Turn
I got hooked in reading and studying more, the results I wanted were coming in as long as I am "doing the business," but there was a time when I got too occupied with my "self studies" and the tasks of my "profession," that I was doing the "business" less & less...
With more effort on my "studies" & my profession, I noticed that I was having less time for "networking." I began to search for more resource materials and groups of people to learn more ( mind you, I hang around with other people such as my colleagues & friends) not just networkers, because I want to hear different points of view and not just stereotype, limited and often "die-hard" views... I want to have a really open mind on things... The e-books started me with that search for the "real" stuffs in life...
With that search, I stumble upon different points of views about money, life and networking... Pros, cons, violent reactions and also some worshiping kinds of views... I tried to improve and develop my networking skills to have my desired results but as time passes and upon reading and hearing so many different views about networking, I found myself slowly getting cold in the network marketing business...
I started weighing all views and points while reading and studying about other aspects of life... Then it came to a point that all reasons I value started to clear the air for me about what's wrong with network marketing... That's when I decided to QUIT NETWORKING!
Prospects still inquire from time time because of the "effective marketing tools" I learned and set up, but I reject them outright and tell them I don't do networking no more...
When they ask me why, I just direct them to my blog... and have them read the reasons.
What I Intend to Do
I thought I was helping others with my "network marketing business" just so because I was so blinded by my desire to have financial freedom (or perhaps greed)... It was just recently I got certain that all the money to be had is from the loses of others. I don't want to sell "dreams" to people no more with the promise of false hope. Just because I'm getting the results I wanted and desired, it doesn't mean it's ok to take advantage of other people's need, desires and dreams... The end never ever and will never justify the means. (no matter how good the end is)..
I thought, if we really wanted to help others, why do we need to exploit their neediness or greediness perhaps for our benefit? Why not share the knowledge and extend the much needed help without the back-end profiteering?
Why not profit from selling the product itself and not by "selling the dream?"
Maybe there's too much training we attended about "abundant mindset" that we practically limited our options to this kind of business as the only real profitable one. (there's no doubt, it's profitable but at whose expense?)
I don't intend to destroy or bad mouth anyone, but what I intend is to open the minds of those which are not yet sold to the "doctrines" of a different kind of "blind faith" (power!)
Use the greatest asset you have been given (your mind)...
I'm sure you have heard all the advantages and benefits...
Try to weigh them with the hidden truths they try too hard not to show (nor realize)....
And decide for yourself! After all, you are in control!
“I shall pass this way but once, any good, therefore, that I can do or any kindness that I can show to any human being, let me do it now. Let me not defer nor neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again.”
I thought, if we really wanted to help others, why do we need to exploit their neediness or greediness perhaps for our benefit? Why not share the knowledge and extend the much needed help without the back-end profiteering?
Why not profit from selling the product itself and not by "selling the dream?"
Maybe there's too much training we attended about "abundant mindset" that we practically limited our options to this kind of business as the only real profitable one. (there's no doubt, it's profitable but at whose expense?)
I don't intend to destroy or bad mouth anyone, but what I intend is to open the minds of those which are not yet sold to the "doctrines" of a different kind of "blind faith" (power!)
Use the greatest asset you have been given (your mind)...
I'm sure you have heard all the advantages and benefits...
Try to weigh them with the hidden truths they try too hard not to show (nor realize)....
And decide for yourself! After all, you are in control!
“I shall pass this way but once, any good, therefore, that I can do or any kindness that I can show to any human being, let me do it now. Let me not defer nor neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again.”
Here's to your success,
Joel Magsisi
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